Loving The Crap Out Of Your Scared Inner Child

LEAVING YOUR COMFORT ZONE

Every time I boldly step into something that stretches me…

That pushes me outside of my comfort zone into uncharted waters…

That moves me towards my big soul aligned vision…

My wounded inner child goes apeshit.

The part of me that is so fucking terrified of being rejected and shamed, surfaces.

The part who believes it's safer to keep playing small.

She holds all the cellular memories of past traumas, that I've stored in my body.

And it's this body level fear getting activated for me that triggers the mental story loop to play. 

The one of the shame story that says:

“You are not good enough. You are not worthy. You are in trouble. You are going to be rejected. Blah blah blah.”

In the past I would have allowed the story to play and had an emotional meltdown.

And today, I show up differently. I've learned to make a new more empowered choice in the moment. 

Here is what that looks like. 

I stop the story tape. I hit eject and toss it in the garbage.

Then I allow that child part to fully feel it. 

All of it. 

The shame. 

The unworthiness. 

The unlovableness.

The enormity of the LIE.

However I do not collapse into the distortion. I do not allow the distorted mental loop to continue running. Instead I feel into the core wound and sob. I allow the cleansing healing tears to flow. 

Because the truth is, regardless of circumstance, of the past experience, or of external approval... 

I am ALWAYS and in ALL WAYS worthy and deserving of love. 
As are you my love. We ALL are.

I now practice showing up more fully as the unconditionally loving parent. The one who honors what this child part of me feels, instead of yelling at her or making her wrong for her experience. I set healthy loving boundaries with her as well. 

And in this, she begins to feel safe and integrate into the fullness of my being.

It's time to wake up, to choose to step up, and to powerfully claim your own liberation. 

And as always...

Show up courageously. Be authentic. Speak your soul's truth. Unapologetically. And With Love.

~ Diana Rose Kottle

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Aligning With Your Soul's Authentic Truth

It's often more simple than you may think

HOLY WOW!

I Just finished a power packed *Deep Dive Soul Alignment VIP day* (yeah that's an actual thing!) with an awesome soul mate client. 

I am in such gratitude + awe at what emerged. 

I had NO idea that being authentic + truly living into my joy, would translate into an actual biz...

Where I get paid to help people align with their soul's true purpose + birth their creative visions into form. 

That being authentic + living my joy, would not only help me get clear on MY soul's purpose, but that it would allow me to help others to get clear on + live theirs as well. 

THE PERFECT BLOCK

You see, for so long I needed things to be "perfect" before I could move forward. 

I wanted the entire picture to be crystal fucking clear before I took a step. 

I can be pretty stubborn and willful.

So I dug my heals in and basically refused to take action until the "perfect alignment" emerged.

I stayed stuck in a state of analysis paralysis for a long ass time, waiting for the perfect aligned Divine timing to strike like lightening. 

Thing is, the timing is rarely ever gong to be "perfect". 

AND we often can't see the full picture until step 7. 

It literally can't emerge until we start moving forward...

THE EPIC SHIFT

When I started tuning into my heart and listening to my soul from a clear aligned space, instead of struggling to create something from my head that I thought I "should" be doing based on what everyone else was doing or on my credentials and formal education.... 

I started receiving clear messages as to what MY soul's truth and purpose really is. 

My essence clearly presented itself to me. The simple message was: 

"Be Authentic"

THE CREEPING DOUBT

At first I didn't listen because I didn't understand it. 

How the actual fuck does one monetize Authenticity?! And what does that even mean?! 

I couldn't wrap my head/mind/brain around how just showing up authentically was ever going to create an actual biz for me.

In fact, I was actually TOLD by people that showing up authentically and "over sharing" was a biz killer and that I was stupid for being so publicly vulnerable and casually dressed.

THE CORE TRUTH

Even though I kept receiving the CLEAR message from my soul to simply "show up and be authentic", I kept living in and from the limiting story loop in my mind that said:

"I need to find my clarity first". 

Translation: "I'm really fucking terrified of doing it wrong + failing + NOT ever living into my vision and purpose."

For a long time I did the dance of invisibility while I flirted w dipping my toe in the river of truth + infinite possibilities. 

And this looked like me playing fucking small. 

When I finally started taking the aligned inspired *AUTHENTIC* action steps I was being shown, the next step and then the next, revealed themselves. 

The picture began to come into form. 

But I had to Trust + and to leap, well beyond my comfort zone. FIRST.

THE AWESOME RESULT

I am now legit creating and living my dream biz + working with soulmate clients.

I get to show up + be authentic + speak my soul's truth, boldly + with love.

I get to create from my heart space and allow what organically wants to emerge.

I get to attune deeply to my intuition and inner knowing, allowing my soul to speak through me in miraculous ways.

And in the process of being exactly who I am and be, and shining my light brightly, I help my clients achieve the same results.

And together, as bright Lighthouses, we are impacting the world in ways that inspire, empower, and awakening the consciousness of humanity. 

Hell to the Yeah! 

So my love, if you have a deep soul calling that is stirring inside of you TAKE A STEP TOWARD THIS NOW!

AND if you would like the support of a kick ass creative visionary (me) to help you finally get clear + confident + aligned around your soul's vision, so you can actually bring this into form...

Check out the link HERE and let's get started! 

And as always...

Show up courageously. Be authentic. Speak your soul's truth. Unapologetically. And with Love. 

~ Diana Rose Kottle

The Stormy Chaos Of Life

On the days when I feel tangled and caught up in the stormy chaos of life, I remember this simple wisdom:

"This too shall pass." 

And then I breathe.

Some days are more challenging than others.

These are the days of growth, where we are cultivating our inner garden. We are weeding out what's unaligned with who we truly are.


Pulling weeds isn't always fun or painless, but is necessary and worth it.

As we change our landscape, leaving the lower vibrations behind and moving up in frequency, we cannot keep the old patterns, the old belief systems, the old thoughts, or the painful suitcases of emotional hurts that we carry around with us.

They serve to drag us down.

They keep us anchored in the past and tethered to the denser frequencies that hold us in chains.

They stop us from up-leveling our lives.

Every time I release what is heavy and old and no longer necessary in my life, I allow myself to be set free.

And it's amazing how quickly aligned things can manifest in our lives when we create the space for them.

It's time to wake up, to choose to step up, and to powerfully claim your own liberation. 

And as always...

Show up courageously. Be authentic. Speak your soul's truth. Unapologetically. And With Love.

~ Diana Rose Kottle

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